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Yes, I agree. There are a lot of pieces here. I can't attest for the way men feel and right now we are getting mostly the LBGTQ+ version. Heteros aren't discussing any of this. Natural arousal is a necessary reaction to progression as a species. But, sexualization is another animal. Women are being degraded. You can see it in the trans selfish way of 'acting as a woman' desired. Uncontrolled desire is the agenda not Love. **ck 'em and leave was not the intended route to 'go forth and multiply' and honor your parents.

Women have more to offer than just a body. Women nourish & share, men hunt & destroy. Men live selfishly not having to sacrifice body & soul for another life. Men can have children and not be changed by it. Not so much for women.

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I don’t think it’s possible to remain unaffected by having children--it’s not in the genetic code. A part of a social code, perhaps.

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I've seen many men ignore their offspring until later in life when they are looking for that legacy thang :)) Invisible until useful.

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There’s a fine line when it comes to that “legacy” construct and the actual communication involving DNA. Your point is taken, however v.

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I understand your feelings.

I understand your words.

I don't disagree.

I think we are being pushed to fear, to be divided. To be angry and feel rage.

Our boundaries are being violated in horrifying ways.

Be angry, let whatever needs to come through come through. It's hard, it sucks. But don't vilify men in a generalized way. It is what is asked of you by the Powers That Shouldn't Be. It's a trap.

Don't vilify sex. Being sexualized is something quite different than sex.

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I am not angry. I am not vilifying all men. I've got nothing against sex. I am saying the human experience is being usurped by the inhumane. That these displays of what a woman is by men dressed up as women is a selfish act/drama that stems from fear of love. There is no love, caring, sharing in desire. Wanting is suffering, you are suffering from need not from what is love.

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I don't quite follow you.

I think this whole overblown trans piece is being pushed in 'our' faces by design. And no, men who feel they want to be or are woman and display that by wearing dresses and makeup has nothing to do with being a woman. And whether you are angry or not is for you to know not me. There's nothing wrong with being angry though.

Sorry if I offended you in some way.

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No need for sorry. You have not offended me in any way.

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Okay, I couldn't tell at all.

It's hard communicating through writing, it leaves so much out.

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Pretending you are someone or something is not 'Becoming' said thing/pronoun. A case of Self Love....if you love yourself there is no need for labeling or pretense.

I have no desire/need to tell you who/what I Am when I know who I Am.

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Absolutely.

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